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Breast Feeding; In public
Topic Started: Dec 30 2011, 05:37 AM (1,203 Views)
Seruphim
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Lately Fox news has been airing this story

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/12/28/breastfeeding-moms-stage-nurse-in-protest-at-target-stores-worldwide/

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Breastfeeding mothers staged a "nurse-in" Wednesday at Target stores nationwide to show solidarity with a Texas woman who said she was ridiculed for breastfeeding her baby at a Houston store.

Michelle Hickman organized a Facebook campaign to call for the "nurse-in," which took place in several US cities including Houston, Knoxville, Tenn., and Decatur, Ill.

About 50 nursing mothers showed up to protest at the Webster, Texas, Target store where Hickman said she was harassed last month, MyFOXhouston reported.

Hickman told the station she was Christmas shopping when she realized her infant needed to be fed. She said she found a remote area of the store in the ladies clothing department, took a seat on the ground, and began to breast feed her "hungry baby with a blanket completely covering him."

According to Hickman, two female employees approached her and asked her to move to a fitting room, MyFOXhouston reported. One of the employees allegedly commented "you can get a ticket and be reported for indecent exposure."


This discussion isn't so much about the article though. I just brought it up since this is what brought it up for me.
What is your opinion on breast feeding in public?
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Depends really. In a crowded public place it's a little strange and could make people uncomfortable. Going to one of the changing rooms probably would have been a better idea really. I personally don't really care but I could see why some people would.
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Absolutely no problem with it. It's totally natural and people can ***** off it they don't like it.
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haha I pretty much agree Sasuke.
I think my main problem is the double standards around breasts. A man go around with his shirt off but a public indecency has been made if a woman does so (even if she does so to FEED her CHILD)
And I don't understand why it makes people uncomfortable. It's a breast. As if you have not seen one before. I can understand being uncomfortable if the woman was doing it for sexual reasons in public. But to feed her child? I could care less.
Another thing that really bothers me is how uncomfortable some women feel so they go out of their to feed in their child in a way that is 'acceptable' to society.
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Dec 30 2011, 08:09 AM
haha I pretty much agree Sasuke.
I think my main problem is the double standards around breasts. A man go around with his shirt off but a public indecency has been made if a woman does so (even if she does so to FEED her CHILD)
And I don't understand why it makes people uncomfortable. It's a breast. As if you have not seen one before. I can understand being uncomfortable if the woman was doing it for sexual reasons in public. But to feed her child? I could care less.
Another thing that really bothers me is how uncomfortable some women feel so they go out of their to feed in their child in a way that is 'acceptable' to society.
Pretty much bending over to what Society deeds "Normal". In case people don't know it's been going on for as long as humanity as existed. Apparently now XXXX amount of years later some people have a problem with it.

There was a Nascar driver who recently was on the hot seat for "Nasty" comments.

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/nascar-driver-kasey-kahne-apologizes-nasty-breastfeeding-comments-twitter-article-1.998422

Makes you think people have a problem against Nature itself sometimes.
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Seruphim
Dec 30 2011, 08:09 AM
I think my main problem is the double standards around breasts. A man go around with his shirt off but a public indecency has been made if a woman does so (even if she does so to FEED her CHILD)
Well in fairness female breasts, as opposed to male breasts, are erogenous zones and create sexual excitement in the opposite sex. There is a difference between the two because men are programmed to appreciate female breasts in lewd ways and, well, as far as i know, manboobs are not hawt.

However, difference established, I still have absolutely no problem with a woman breastfeeding her child in public. There was a topic just like this a few months ago that you might be interested in looking at, there were a lot of very interesting points made.
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I'm not completely against it but in a crowded area women should be allowed to do it somewhere say in the back f a shop for privacy.

I just don't get why women are fine with it all of a sudden when they have a kid you wouldn't catch many like woohoo! And taking them out in the street for all to see, a lot think it's disgusting to do that. Then baby comes along and it's fine :S

I know it's to feed the child but it's not like it has to be done babies don't just die abruptly if you haven't fed them for an hour or so.


So I'm kinda on the fence.
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I do not have a problem with it. Baby's gotta eat.


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Dec 30 2011, 11:16 AM
Seruphim
Dec 30 2011, 08:09 AM
I think my main problem is the double standards around breasts. A man go around with his shirt off but a public indecency has been made if a woman does so (even if she does so to FEED her CHILD)
Well in fairness female breasts, as opposed to male breasts, are erogenous zones and create sexual excitement in the opposite sex. There is a difference between the two because men are programmed to appreciate female breasts in lewd ways and, well, as far as i know, manboobs are not hawt.

However, difference established, I still have absolutely no problem with a woman breastfeeding her child in public. There was a topic just like this a few months ago that you might be interested in looking at, there were a lot of very interesting points made.
lol, the wording of that post made me chuckle.

But, as an art student that spent a whole lot of time drawing the naked human form, I think it's pretty foolish to get so bent out of shape over something like this. In an ideal world, people would be more open to seeing things, namely issues like this, from a different perspective. Sadly, though, this isn't a perfect world, and most everyone seem as though they can only look at something from one angle.

I find it particularly offensive that the store clerks told her that she could get a ticket for indecent exposure. It's a basic bodily function, the need to eat, and feed. People should pay a little more attention to intent. It's just like how you can be forced to register as a sex offender for pissing in public, when, how many of you have been in a situation where you've had to go when there's no bathroom around?
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i have no problam with a woman breastfeeding in public. now, if she went to the effort to find a remote area, then yeah, she should have just used the bathroom or fitting rooms, because that makes more sense, but that's a side issue. other things that have been mentioned:

1. public breastfeeding is specifically protected in Texas law, as it is in most states.

2. the female chest is not naturally more sex related than then male chest. that's a culture issue, not a nature issue. and besides, a man taking his shirt off in most stores would be asked to leave (no shirt, no shoes, no service is a very common sign).

3. man boobs aren't hot, but properly developed male chests are, just so you know.

4. the protest is kind of stupid. target didn't do anything wrong, two employees did. protest those employees, not the company.
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Dec 30 2011, 11:16 AM
Well in fairness female breasts, as opposed to male breasts, are erogenous zones and create sexual excitement in the opposite sex. There is a difference between the two because men are programmed to appreciate female breasts in lewd ways and, well, as far as i know, manboobs are not hawt.
That's a cultural thing though. That's also like saying 'well, a woman's body causes men to want to her, so therefore it's her fault if she's sexually assaulted for wearing revealing clothes.' at least, that's what it reminds me of.
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I have no problem with this. Babies have to eat, and if women have the source of their food, so be it.
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I find nothing wrong with it... in an open space. In closed spaces, I'm not sure how I'd feel.
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Seruphim
Dec 30 2011, 09:51 PM
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Dec 30 2011, 11:16 AM
Well in fairness female breasts, as opposed to male breasts, are erogenous zones and create sexual excitement in the opposite sex. There is a difference between the two because men are programmed to appreciate female breasts in lewd ways and, well, as far as i know, manboobs are not hawt.
That's a cultural thing though. That's also like saying 'well, a woman's body causes men to want to her, so therefore it's her fault if she's sexually assaulted for wearing revealing clothes.' at least, that's what it reminds me of.
That's not what I was meaning at all. I was just stating that there is a difference between seeing a topless man and a topless woman in the street to the respective opposite genders because men have a biological and lustful appreciation of the woman's breasts that can make the breastfeeing mother and the men themselves feel flustered and uncomfortable. I'm not saying that it should, or that this is at all an argument against public breastfeeding, I'm just saying that there is a difference.
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